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COVID-19 is hitting again. And in many countries even harder than during the first wave in March. Many countries are again imposing instructions. Some regions are again in a full or partial lockdown. Time to think again about how we can help individuals on the autism spectrum to cope with the negative consequences of the pandemic.
Below are some tips to get through these difficult times if you have autism or if you are a parent of a child on the spectrum.
Give information about the crisis and push the context button, especially the positive context
Do not make the uncertainty and fear greater than necessary. The corona crisis is accompanied by a great deal of uncertainty. Nobody knows how the disease and the number of infections will evolve, nor how long the current measures will last and whether and what new measures will come. Uncertainty and unpredictability already pose a major challenge for people with autism without the Corona crisis and now all kinds of new and unknown uncertainties are being added. When can I go (back) to school? Will I also get sick? Who in my environment can infect me? Will I soon be unemployed?
It is good to be informed, but make sure that the information about the pandemic does not unnecessarily increase the uncertainty. And try to avoid too much (negative) information.
A few tips:
- Avoid overwhelming children and young people with autism with all kinds of information about the pandemic. Messages come in all day long on radio, TV, but also on social media. Much of that news is one-sided negative (news agencies report every day about the number of new cases and deaths, but not always about how many people have been cured). There is also a lot of fake news circulating. If possible, limit the information about the pandemic to one or two – preferably fixed – moments per day. Watch TV together and listen to the radio together. And above all give context to all that news, so that children and young people get a nuanced picture and learn that there are still many things that are going well in the world.
- If you are an adult with autism: plan when you will get information so that you are not constantly confronted with information. Choose one or two times a day that you will be dealing with the news updates about the Corona crisis. Turn off push notifications on your smartphone so that you don’t receive information that you have to process all the time and at unpredictable moments. Take control of the information that comes to you and determine when, where and how much information you want to receive.
- Ask at regular times (for example, once a day) what questions children with autism have and answer their questions, but do not provide more information than they need.
- Give children a short and clear explanation about the coronavirus and COVID-19. My good friend Carol Gray wrote a Social StoryTM “Pandemics and the Corona virus”.
Dr. Siobhan Timmins, doctor, mother of a son with autism and also a friend of Carol Gray also wrote a Social StoryTM “Learning about the Corona virus” that you can use with children with autism.
- Use a neutral language. Avoid negatively charged terms such as dangerous, deadly, catastrophic, terrible as much as possible and replace negative terms with positive ones whenever possible. For example, talk about what you are going to do to stay healthy rather than what you are going to do to not be infected. Tell what kind of activities that are still possible and not just what is no longer allowed.
- Counterbalance all the bad news that is flooding us these days. Each night, identify 3 things that were positive or good that day. Examples enough. The sun was shining. The birds are chirping because it is almost Spring. The soup was tasty. If you have children (with autism), do this with the whole family. No matter how small, consciously thinking about the positive things and sharing them every day is the best vaccine against the “bad news virus”. And it is also a way of pressing the context button, because it places the unpleasant news in a wider context where fun and positive things also happen.
- If you do worry, schedule worry time and plan your day so to ensure that activities distract you for most of the day. It is also best to organize worry times for children and also plan moments to relax and distract your attention (see also the tips for free time).
Protect yourself and the others
Teach children the actions necessary to avoid contamination: washing hands regularly, keeping a distance, sneezing and coughing in the elbow.
Make all instructions autism-friendly by making them concrete and visual.
- The World Health Organization has many tips on its website in fairly concrete language and with lots of visuals. On the Internet you will certainly find instruction videos for hand washing, such as this one from John Hopkins Medicine with the World Health Organization’s hand washing instructions
- For children there are funny instructional videos for hand washing like “How to wash your hands song” from the NHS. There are also videos for coughing and sneezing etiquette.
- Some children and young people on the spectrum prefer logical and scientific information. It is easier to convince them to learn new behaviors with scientific facts than with emotional arguments (such as ‘we are worried about your health). For those there is this video from Mythbusters that tells why we should sneeze in the elbow.
- Standard instructions can be too vague, too abstract or too confusing for certain people with autism. Try to communicate as concretely as possible and make all measures clear and concrete with step-by-step plans and visual support. The World Health Organization has a visual roadmap for hand washing
For some children and young people, these visual instructions are still not concrete enough. For example, it may be necessary to use a concrete time indication (count up to 20) or a time timer to indicate how long the hands should be scrubbed.
Organize the ocean of free time that is now emerging.
People with autism love well-organized, structured activities. Empty time and too much non-organized free time are a torment for many children, young people and adults with autism.
Schools are currently being closed again in many countries. Or they are switching again to distant learning. The structure of every day gets lost again for many children and young people with autism. Going somewhere (the zoo, the cinema, museum, restaurant …) is also no longer possible. As a result, there is a lot of time that threatens not to be filled in, at least not in a predictable and structured way. Some young people with autism don’t mind that, because then they can play for hours or engage in Netflix binge watching. But that’s not such a good idea. Not only is there the risk of addiction, there is also the risk of a further narrowing of the world, which is already becoming more limited by the lock down measures.
A few tips:
- Provide support in these times of uncertainty by keeping as many daily routines as possible. These islets of predictability are needed now more than ever.
- Create and use a day schedule for children and young people with autism. Give them an overview of what’s going to happen and the overview as concrete and visual as possible. Give predictability but allow time for variation. And, if the child can handle it, make sure to offer choices. This way the child sees when it will be allowed to choose an activity and when not.
- If you also have to stay at home as a parent, start doing things with your children. There is plenty to learn and learning can be fun. This may be the time to teach your child how to make pizza, sort the laundry, fix something at home. Do something that has immediate results and that is fun.
- And maybe this is also the time when your son or daughter can teach you something, e.g. about gaming or social media. As a parent you can learn a lot from your children!
- The Corona virus creates a lot of anxiety and stress. So, a good moment to start with yoga or some other form of relaxation. You don’t have to go out for that. There are many apps for yoga and relaxation and on Youtube you will find hundreds of videos to teach yoga, mindfulness or other forms of relaxation.
- Keep coming out of the house and exercising. There is plenty of evidence that exercising for half an hour a day is not only good for our physical health but also for our mental well-being. Provided we keep sufficient distance from each other (1.5 meters), it is therefore perfectly safe to go out. Go hiking, cycling. Organize a photo search for your children where they have to find certain places or plants using photos. In this way, walking or cycling also has a purpose and a clear beginning and end. When all the items on the photo’s are found, we go back home. Autistic brains prefer closed activities (with a clear and predictable ending) to open activities, without a clear goal and end point.
- The best way to become happy is to make others happy. Current measures results in many older people no longer being allowed to have contact with other people than their care takers. Many of them are likely to become lonely. Make nice cards with your child (ren) for the elderly and people who are in the hospital. If your children don’t like to draw, have them make a funny video that they can share with grandparents via Whatsapp or Facebook. Or go and bake cookies and hand them over to the home for the elderly nearby. Or let your son or daughter create a “feel good” playlist on Spotify for family, friends and neighbors. Give children and young people with autism the feeling that they can make the world a better place in these times of crisis and that they can make a difference. And at the same time, a lot of free time will be filled in.
- If you are an adult with autism who is suddenly confronted with a lot of free time, ask family, friends or via social media what you can do to help. For example, you might be able to teach a grandpa or grandma to Skype or Whatsapp, so that they can stay in touch with the (grand) children. Or you can do shopping for people who are quarantined. Or if you are someone who knows a lot about a certain subject or knows a lot of facts: make a quiz. The demand for alternative leisure activities will only increase in the coming weeks and months.
These are difficult times for all of us. Also for people with autism and their families. But we should never waste a good crisis. This is an opportunity for all of us to become more creative and inventive in supporting autistic people and their families. Let’s support each other and make the best of it.
During the pandemic, I have been supporting some autism organisations in with their Covid-19 resources. It is well worth taking a look at some of the wonderful resources that have been developed by a.o. Scottish Autism, Studio III and Middletown Centre for Autism.
For those of you who are Dutch speaking: I offer an online session on Autism and Covid-19: an evening session on November 19th and an afternoon session on December 16th.
Last personal note:
I have not been travelling since March, but that does not mean that my contagious messages about ‘autistic happiness’ or ‘absolute thinking in a relative world’ cannot be shared. I am doing webinars for many organisations. Coming in the near future are some webinars for Pedagogiskt Perspektiv. Stay in touch and keep on following me on Twitter (@peter_autisme) and LinkedIn.
16 thoughts on “Autism and the Corona virus: 20 tips”
Hello, do you have this article in Dutch? I shared it in a group on facebook with a lot of people with autism (because I think it is a very useful article)… But some people have difficulty with English… Else someone is willing to translate it.
Je kan ook google translate (vertalen) gebruiken.
I find it, almost impossible to function at the best of times. I have to isolate – isolation makes me panic. I need repairs done but social landlords ignore complaints, and make repairs worse – mine is in a very dangerous state, My family member, will be returning from Italy in a few weeks – who gets angry with communication and hides her feelings. I am distressed.
Reblogged this on My Letter to the World and commented:
I posted yesterday about not being sure how my fellow autistic people are coping with the coronavirus. Luckily, my therapist sent me this link to Peter Vermeulen’s blog, which has lots of useful advice for autistic people and parents of autistic children (and everyone!)
This is such a valuable blog with ‘20 tips for supporting children and people on the autism spectrum in these difficult times of Corona crisis’. Both social stories are fabulous too
Hi Peter, thank you for your post. I will share it with my friends who understand English.
May I have your permission to translate the article in Romanian for my son’s therapists and for other mothers of autistic children I knew? Of course, I will keep the name of the author and the source.
Thank you for your permission.
I finally found the time to work on the translation. I sent it to you via email, I hope you will receive it.
Thank you again, the Romanian version (which I shared with friends, via personal emails) already gained appreciations.
Best wishes, Irina
Thank you for your work, I find it very useful. May I have the permission to translate some of your tips in Italian and share the document with families with children with autism? I’m an assistant behavior analyst and I’m trying to share some materials to help families. Thanks a lot.
Dear Peter, thank you for your tips. I will share it with my english contacts.
May I have your permission to translate the article in Italian ?
I will keep the your name and the link to your website
Hi Peter, your article was interesting to me. But some parts I can’t read. because they are too bright. May I have your permission to translate it to Persian for Farsi speakers and of course your name is coming under your article. I would be happy if you could send the whole article to me by email
Hi Peter! May I have your permission to translate the article in Finnish and share it in our social media and website?